How To Find Your Soulmate Using Your Intuition
| Clashing Signs | Forever Duos |
| Scorpio & Leo | Leo & Libra |
| Capricorn & Gemini | Aries & Sagittarius |
| Virgo & Aries | Cancer & Pisces |
| Sagittarius & Cancer | Taurus & Virgo |
| Libra & Virgo | Gemini & Aquarius |
| Pisces & Gemini | Scorpio & Cancer |
| Aquarius & Scorpio | Virgo & Scorpio |
| Leo & Capricorn | Sagittarius & Leo |
| Taurus & Libra | Libra & Gemini |
| Leo & Taurus | Pisces & Capricorn |
| Aries & Capricorn | Aquarius & Libra |
| Leo & Aries |
These pairings often involve signs that "square" or "oppose" each other. This creates tension because their fundamental needs and ways of operating are very different.
Example: Scorpio & Leo
Why they clash: This is a clash of two powerful Fixed signs. Leo (Fixed Fire) needs to shine outwardly and receive validation. Scorpio (Fixed Water) operates from a place of deep, internal power and emotional intensity. They can get into epic power struggles, as both are stubborn and want control in different ways.
Example: Capricorn & Gemini
Why they clash: Capricorn (Cardinal Earth) values structure, long-term plans, and tangible results. Gemini (Mutable Air) values freedom, variety, and the world of ideas. Capricorn may see Gemini as flaky and unreliable, while Gemini can find Capricorn to be overly serious or restrictive.
Example: Aries & Cancer
Why they clash: This is a Cardinal sign clash (Fire vs. Water). Aries is direct, impulsive, and confronts issues head-on. Cancer is indirect, emotional, and prioritizes emotional security. Aries's bluntness can feel like an attack to the sensitive Cancer, while Cancer's need for reassurance can feel smothering to the independent Aries.
💖 Forever Duos: The Logic of Harmony
These pairs are often "trine" or "sextile" each other. They are typically in compatible elements (like Earth with Water, or Fire with Air) and share an easy, flowing connection.
Example: Leo & Libra
Why they are a duo: This is a Fire and Air combination. Air (Libra) fuels Fire (Leo). Libra, ruled by Venus, loves beauty, harmony,and partnership, and is a natural diplomat. Leo, ruled by the Sun, loves to be admired and adored. Libra is happy to put Leo in the spotlight and shower them with praise, while Leo provides the passion and excitement that Libra enjoys.
Example: Taurus & Virgo
Why they are a duo: This is an Earth and Earth pairing. They share a fundamental understanding. Both are practical, grounded, and value security and stability. Taurus (Fixed) provides loyalty and sensual comfort, while Virgo (Mutable) provides thoughtful service and helps organize their shared life. They build a very secure and reliable world together.
Example: Cancer & Pisces
Why they are a duo: This is a Water and Water pairing. They connect on a deep emotional and intuitive level. They "get" each other without needing to say much. Cancer (Cardinal) provides the nurturing, "homey" foundation, while Pisces (Mutable) brings empathy, imagination, and a go-with-the-flow energy that soothes Cancer's soul.
How To Find Your Soulmate Using Your Intuition
Only the heart knows what is really great for you, but the problem these days is that the mind is getting in the way. The mind’s argument can be that you can’t always trust the heart, that’s why you need to listen to your intuition.
Nonverbal communication and vibes
It is stated that 93 percent of all communication is nonverbal. However, the study which came up with that number was flawed. Even if the exact number is not accurate, nonverbal communication is the primary method through which we get a vibe about what a person is like.The moment that you see another person, they communicate with you through their clothes, hair, posture, and so on. From there, you can get a first impression, and will get a vibe one way or the other.
So how do you use intuition?
First is to be open to the fact that you may need to reach a certain emotional balance to attract the right person.Second is recognizing all the signs and messages the universe gives you, which tend to come in mysterious codes.
Third is healing yourself within the lessons to achieve higher levels of emotional balance.
On a journey to find your soulmate, the experiences you have are meant to teach you lessons on your emotional imbalances. There is always some baggage that you need to get out of the way as well as ideas that you may need to get out of the way about who your soulmate really is.
Intuition works mysteriously, so it is important to look for signs, connections, mysterious coincidences, feelings, etc. Once you get the hang of this, you can start trusting it and putting your ego aside.
You are just surrendering yourself to the experience. As long as you put yourself out there, things are bound to happen. As you put the agenda of the ego aside, you stop wanting things so badly, which always ends up working against you.
In the process, it's important to use this perspective to get over obstacles. Otherwise, you may just drag yourself down for no reason. A failed date can then simply be a message for you of a deeper meaning of what you need to learn.
Sure, it's painful to experience failure, but it is important to let it pass through without judgment so you can see the meaning afterward.
Take some space and time to reflect on this with a calm mind can be very healing. If you beat yourself up over it, you may never see the meaning and will add more baggage that you’ll have to eventually get through.
Taking this perspective toward finding true love can be immensely fun and fulfilling! Then your soulmate can show up when you don’t expect, and you may only recognize this after a few dates. You have to be careful about vibes. You may feel a rush of blood to your face and your nerves tingling when you meet some other person, but that does not guarantee you have met your soulmate. It can mean other things and could even signal that your intuition is warning you that they could be dangerous.
Given these mixed signs, it can be difficult to figure out what your intuition is and what your desires are upon meeting someone. One of my favorite tricks for figuring what my intuition is truly telling me is flipping a coin. The point is not what side the coin lands on, the key point is that when the coin is in the air, you will find yourself hoping that it will land on one side or the other. It’s at that moment, you will know what the right decision is. Follow your heart from there, and it will lead to good results.
This is not just a trick to force yourself to make a decision. The idea of a soulmate (or a soul split in two) reaches far into history, known by the Greeks as Plato’s concept of twin flame separation. These ancient traditions believed thought, logic, and reasoning were an obstacle to being reunited with your soulmate. Pressuring yourself to make a decision forces you to abandon logic and reasoning by trusting your gut.
Sit down and think
So, you have a good night or date out with someone, and you find yourself wondering if you are in love with them, or if you are just in lust, or if there is something else you are feeling?
A good way to emote out your feelings is to sit down and write. As Lynn Robinson points out, sit down with a piece of paper and a pencil and just write out everything you feel about your date. Do you want to be close with them all of the time, or do you just want to sleep with him at times?
The key point is to write down the first thing that comes to your mind, no matter how embarrassing or ridiculous it might be. By writing down your thoughts as they pop into your brain, you can record them. From there, you can settle into a course of action about what you want to do. That said, do NOT plan out your actions. The goal is to find out what your intuition is and do what it tells you to do.
Listen to the danger voice
Animals and humans developed instincts primarily to avoid danger. If an animal sees a piece of meat in a strange position, its instinct might tell them that something is wrong. If it is careful, it may realize that there is a trap.
The same principle applies with relationships. If you are meeting a great, swell, guy, but your inner-voice is telling you that there is something off with him, listen to it.
Obviously, don’t go telling that guy, “Hey, there’s something off with you.” What you should do is take a step back and think about everything that has happened. Often, your intuition will pick up something about him that you have missed. However, if you spend enough time going over what just happened, you should be able to figure out what is odd.
Conclusion
We like to think of instincts as something feral that is not part of our reasoning, but that is backwards. Our instincts and intuition arrive when our brain has noticed something, but our reasoning has not caught up to it.
Trust your brain and your heart, and you will be able to find someone with whom you can have a great relationship.