Challenging but Passionate
As any fifth grade science student knows, fire and water don't mix. One extinguishes the other. But if we look at the internal chemistry of these two signs, this combination can usher in a relationship fueled by passion, adventure and unparalleled excitement But Aries, there are some caveats to all this.
You, as a cardinal fire sign, tend to be all over the place in terms of your interests, creative pursuits and passions. As a fearless pioneer who lives like the Star Trek motto, you're ter-rific at initiating things. But you're not great at following things through and finishing them. You're outgoing and social and can work a room full of strangers with the ease of a politician. Scorpio, as a fixed water sign, tends to be more focused, finishes what he or she starts and delves much more deeply than you do. Let's take a closer look at how you can make this rela-tionship work.
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Your heart and soul are forever perched at the tip of your tongue. You open your mouth and out they tumble. It's how you are. But Scorpio is your opposite in this sense; so don't ever expect this sign to reciprocate.
Scorpio waftsten. This sign is agreatlistener who mulls over all the information you have provided, all your stories and triumphs and defeats. But Scorpio won't confide in you until he or she is ready. Don't push or rush Scorpio. Don't get irritable. Go with the flow, Aries. Fol-low Scorpio's lead. Focus on the passions you share, whatever they are. One of those shared passions may be physical activity.
Rock climbing?Check. Hiking?Check. Whitewater rafting?Check. Climbing K ilimanjaro?Check. Sex?Double check.
You get the idea. Find the places where your interests intersect. Then follow the Dale
Carnegie big three: don't criticize, condemn or complain. When you're feeling restless and out of sorts, you rush around like it's your last day on the planet and you simply must accomplish ev-erything you set out to do when you woke at 7:00 am. But it's not your last day, and every-one around you ends up feeling rushed and exhausted in your presence. If you do this with Scorpio, he or she will be long gone before the day ends.
In the Bedroom
You're both passionate people, and it's proba-bly safe to say that you won't last more than a few dates before you hit the bedroom. And this is when everything is taken to a whole new level.
If you're the kind of Aries for whom sex is a rush toward completion, then you're in for a delightful surprise. For Scorpio, sex is a ban-quet of discovery, and the slower the better. So stretch it out, Aries. Set a mood for seduction. Whether it's a great home-cooked meal, a de-licious wine, silk sheets—or all of the above—make it clear from the onset that you're ready to go wherever Scorpio leads you.
Relax into it. Understand that for Scorpio, sex isn't just about sex. It's about connection at a profound level, the level where you both may recognize that you have been together in past lives. At this cellular level, your souls speak to each other. Sex becomes a vehicle to a spiritual experience and bonding.
Scorpios, like every sign, are varied, and if the one you're dating indulges in sex and is gone without good-byes—or even coffee—in the morning, then it's probably best for both of you
to cut your losses and just walk away without regrets. If you're lucky, though, your date mate will be the banquet variety, slow and erotic.
What to Avoid
If you're dating a Scorpio, then this bullet list of don'ts may be the most important list you'll ever see.
'Don't whine. Don't complain. 'Don't be possessive. 'Don't demand answers. Don't accuse without facts. Don't lie. Don't pretend to be something you aren't. Don't act like you've got all the answers. 'Don't ignore Scorpio's contributions.
0. Don't rush Scorpio.
Don't ask impossible questions.
What to Embrace
Here's your second most important list. Always embrace:
Investigating the weird and the strange
Scorpio's hunches (they're usually right on target)
Emotional intensity—even when it makes you uncomfortable
The beauty of silence (until you just can't stand it)
Creative approaches to everything
With Aries and Scorpio, the interests you share may not be readily apparent. You may want to tabe off on the spur of the moment with nothing more than your ATM card and a backpack. But Scorpio likes a bit more planning, thank you. Like a map, a GPS, an actual destination and how about some cash just in case the ATMs don't work? Your attitude may be that the fun lies in the journey. Scorpio probably agrees on that point, but for him the journey is a quest, movement toward understanding something in a deeper way. Your approaches differ, but your passions are similar.
The trick is to capitalize on your strengths as a couple and not fret about the details.
Making Scorpio Happy
Granted, you're not responsible for anyone's happiness or unhappiness. But if you choose to