SCORPIO: How to impress the opposite sex

In the battle of love, you are a four-star general, Scorpio, very much in command. 

You know how to deploy you dynamic personality in order to capture attention- if not love itself. Your need for intense involvement is great. But you passions often smolder underground for longtime before they are revealed. 

You have a gentle, deeply sensitive side, and that can be your most potent weapon in winning warm affection. Your psychic, mystic self is closely in tune with the feelings on others. Reveal more of this side of your nature to the one you have chosen to pursue. 

Wait, however, for a dramatic, overwhelming moment when the stage is set with a ... 

Full Moon or a sky full of stars. Tune in with eye-to-eye and mind-to-mind contact before you say a word. Let your potential partner know that the Scorpio reputation for sensuality is indeed true, but this does not imply promiscuity. Others are often in awe of Scorpio's strength. Show that you are tender and faithful as well as tough. 

The flaw in your faithful devotion is a tendency to go overboard and become jealous and possessive. Assure your love that not only are you a Scorpio, but also as soaring eagle who will fly with him or her to the heights. If the object of your affection is a compatible Cancer, Pisces, Virgo, Taurus or Capricorn - you will glide comfortably and handsomely together. 



  • Aries (the self) and Libra (the other): The axis of relationship.

  • Taurus (personal resources) and Scorpio (shared resources): The axis of possessions and values.

  • Gemini (information) and Sagittarius (wisdom): The axis of knowledge.

  • Cancer (home) and Capricorn (career): The axis of security and public life.

  • Leo (personal expression) and Aquarius (group contribution): The axis of the individual versus the collective.

  • Virgo (daily routines) and Pisces (dreams and the unconscious): The axis of physical reality and the spiritual realm.

The Taurus/Scorpio Axis: "What's Mine" vs. "What's Ours"

This axis deals with resources, values, and security.

  • Taurus (the opposite sign): Represents personal resources. It asks, "What do I have? What are my values? How can I build tangible, physical security for myself?" A Moon in Taurus person feels secure through stability, comfort, and reliable material possessions.

  • Scorpio: Represents shared resources. It asks, "What do we have together? What are our shared values? How do we merge our power and resources to create security?" This includes everything from joint bank accounts and inheritances to the deepest forms of emotional and sexual intimacy.

What This Means for a Moon in Scorpio

For someone with the Moon in Scorpio, their emotional security (Moon) is not found in what they possess personally (Taurus). Instead, they find it through the Scorpio end of the axis. Their deepest need for safety is fulfilled by:

  1. Profound Emotional Merging: You don't feel secure with superficial connections. You need to merge with another person on a deep, soul level. This means sharing secrets, vulnerabilities, and building a bond of absolute trust. You need to know that what you have together is unbreakable.

  2. Shared Power and Resources: Your emotional well-being is intrinsically linked to the concept of "ours." You feel safe when you and a trusted partner (or family) have intertwined your lives. This creates a powerful sense of loyalty and a feeling that you are facing the world together as a single, powerful unit.

  3. Absolute Loyalty and Trust: Because your sense of security is invested in another person, betrayal is your deepest fear and greatest wound. You need all-or-nothing commitment. Any hint of dishonesty or superficiality can trigger intense feelings of insecurity, jealousy, or possessiveness because it threatens the very foundation of your emotional safety.

  4. Emotional Transformation: Unlike the steady comfort sought by a Taurus Moon, a Scorpio Moon finds a strange sense of security in intensity and transformation. You are not afraid of emotional drama or crisis because you instinctively know that these experiences burn away the inessential and lead to a stronger, more authentic bond. Going through a difficult time with someone and coming out stronger on the other side is what makes you feel truly secure.


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